First Sean and his wonderful mom, Lynn, and I went to a nice lunch then to the Nebraska Furniture Mart. It reminded me of a large Home Goods - affordable, but not the best in durability or variety. The have a higher end area in the back of the mart, but they carry lines with which I already have direct accounts, but great to know they are there. And even though Sean loves having his friends over to party, play pool, and watch some games, (which doesn't lend itself to being easy on a house) I think he is looking for a bit of style which comes from a higher end product. He told me that if he was to have nicer items in his place, he and his friends would respect it and care for it more! Sounds like a great plan to me.
Then we headed over to the Country Club Plaza, which has its own beautiful architecture and is a very charming collection of retail stores - love! Sean requested to check out Restoration Hardware, which I was pretty impressed that he even knew what that store was! As we walked around I got a sense of some of the things he liked:

(even though we need a round version of this)
It was great to spend the day with Sean even though we didn't find anything that we had to have for his place, it was great to get a feel of what he thinks is cool, what's too modern, what's too feminine, what's to retro, etc. It was a great start, and fun for me to see the city.
Today I realized that I am the perfect person to help him with his place since I can completely relate to what his intentions are when asking for help with the design. I went through the same process a few years ago when Mike first bought his house and was ready to kick out the trashed party furniture and upgrade a bit. Mike bought his house the same exact week we had started dating, and once I got an inkling from Mike that he was ready for some nicer stuff, I went straight to West Elm and went to town. Now that we are married and I live at the house, I am starting to modify and add nicer pieces to our home. It is a progression that I can see Sean taking, especially since he is the same age Mike was when we started dating. I also have a place of reference to know exactly how Sean's space will be maintained, what will get a beating, and what his adorable dog, London, will want to chew. It gave me the confidence I needed to really run with my ideas.
More on Day 2 tomorrow!